Can we come together as a nation?

We must unite to rise above propaganda, resist the rhetoric of hate, and focus our energies on creating more equitable living conditions for the most vulnerable members of our society before it’s too late

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August is the cruellest month, where I live. The temperatures soar suddenly, and the body sweats like it is in survival mode. The desi in me nurses an instinct to find the nearest air conditioning… my go-to hack for surviving the Delhi heat (I preferred to spend on a coffee in a café than to run the AC in my apartment). Except, artificial sources of ventilation are simply not a thing in the Alps — and I dread the day when it becomes commonplace. The most affordable remedial strategy here, at the peak of summer, is to station oneself at the community swimming pool. This year, my partner and I each bought a season pass so we could go there at will. When you enter, it’s easy to find a shady spot on the many sprawling, grassy, tree-lined lawns.

This year, there are at least four desi people working in the pool’s café. I hear snatches of Hindi and Punjabi, and my heart melts. Sometimes, I am inclined to ask if they might make me a chai if I pay an extra euro. Yesterday, the line to the cash counter was snaky long — it was that hot, and everyone in Tramin with kids had sought refuge in the pool.

As I waited for the macchiato, I noticed one of the desi staff struggling to open a wine bottle with a corkscrew. The customer who had ordered the wine volunteered to do it himself, and the white bar manager laughed and asked the desi staff person to simply hand it over. The other desi staff member laughed at him and joked in Punjabi about his inability to open a wine bottle.

I had only empathy for him, because, despite living in a wine region for more than five years, I suck at uncorking wine. Perhaps, because in my university years I got so adept at opening bottles with either shoes or car keys, I got into my own head about the corkscrew getting stuck, so I always get so nervous and anxious about the whole affair. I’m also spoiled because when I drink a glass, it’s usually with family. Usually, my father-in-law or my partner does the deed. All I need to do is sip and re-serve.

I felt for this desi server, because the only way he to be adept at opening wine bottles is to practise with the right technique, but I imagined, after this instance, self-doubt already creeping into his body, making him second-guess himself.

Deliberating on the life and times of every woman, Rosalyn D’Mello is a reputable art critic and the author of A Handbook For My Lover.